Today, I want to share my perspective on love. Believe me, guys, love is just a feeling. but it’s different for everyone. For a girl, love often means being treated well, feeling appreciated, and being cared for. For a guy, love often means having someone to share everything with, your thoughts, your struggles, your day-to-day life.
Speaking for myself, what I wanted most was simple: a girl with whom I could share my day. Not because I don’t have friends. I do, but friends are friends only until money, circumstances, or priorities come between you.
I’ve spent a lot of time with friends during school, college, and even when I was jobless. We drank together, went on trips, laughed, shared stories, and made memories. Even when we had no money, we found ways to have fun. But as time passed, life changed. Money, jobs, responsibilities, everyone became busy. Friends drifted away, and I realized I had very few people I could truly rely on. Some betrayed me, others broke my trust, and slowly, I learned that life would leave you alone at times.
It was during my teenage years that I started feeling attraction toward girls. I talked to many, sometimes just gossiping, sometimes about more intimate things. But real connection? That came later, when I was 23.
I reconnected with a girl who had been my crush since 2018. At first, it was long-distance, and we couldn’t meet. In 2024, I had the freedom to meet her, and our relationship truly began. I shared everything with her, how my friends affected me, why I was low at times, my life story from 2018 to 2019. I opened up completely, and for a year and a half, everything felt perfect. We met, spent time together, and I realized that my love made her seem even more attractive to me.
But here’s the truth I’ve learned from experience: things changed. Over time, I realized I didn’t matter to her the way I thought I did. She stopped being the same person I met in 2024. I did everything I could for her, but the outcome was the same, I ended up feeling lonely again.
Love is beautiful, but it’s also challenging. For men, leaving someone you truly love is almost impossible, even if the relationship is painful. For women, love can sometimes follow a unique path they can choose to move on more easily.
So, what I’ve learned is this: don’t give all your love to a girl. Love your parents, yourself, your dreams, and your life. Love is valuable, but it shouldn’t consume you entirely.
I’ve heard countless stories and seen many movies Heer Ranjha, Laila Majnu, and more. Love is inspiring, yes, but sometimes, it can be too painful to hold onto completely.
If you want to share your story with me or learn from my experiences, feel free to comment. Life, friendships, and love teach us lessons, sometimes harsh, but always valuable.
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